Lay vs. Lie

The '30 Seconds' Difference At A Glance

'Lie' means to recline or rest - it's something you do yourself. 'Lay' means to put or place something down - it requires an object being placed.

I want to lie down for a nap, but first I need to lay the baby in her crib.

A Deeper Look

'Lie' is what you do yourself - when you or something else is resting or reclining. Nothing is being placed - you're just getting comfy!

Present: I lie down when I'm tired Past: Yesterday, I lay down for a nap Present continuous: I'm lying on the beach

The cat loves to lie in sunny spots.

'Lay' is what you do to something else - you're putting or placing something down.

Present: I lay the book on the table Past: I laid my keys somewhere Present continuous: She's laying the table for dinner

Please lay your coats on the bed.

Common Usage Patterns

Lie

Present: lie, lies | Past: lay | Past Participle: lain | Present Participle: lying Common uses: lie down, lie in wait, lie still

Lay

Present: lay, lays | Past: laid | Past Participle: laid | Present Participle: laying Common uses: lay the table, lay eggs, lay foundations

Key Patterns

Remember: lie (reclining) rarely takes an object, while lay (placing) always needs one

What Teachers Say

"In academic writing, I see so many students write 'I laid down' when they mean 'I lay down'. The trick is to ask yourself if you're placing something somewhere."

-- James, Manchester

"Native speakers often get this wrong too. Focus on whether there's an object being placed - that's when you need 'lay'."

-- Amanda, Vancouver

"When students learn phrasal verbs like 'lay out' and 'lay off', they often find it easier to understand the placing aspect of 'lay'."

-- Robert, Melbourne

From The Headlines

The New York Times | October 15, 2023

"Construction crew lays final section of new high-speed rail track connecting major cities."

The Daily Telegraph | June 24, 2016

"Ancient shipwreck lies undisturbed on Mediterranean seabed after 2,000 years."

The Sydney Morning Herald | March 8, 2011

"Researchers discover rare parrot species that lays eggs in hollow logs."

Test Yourself!

1. Please _______ the plates on the dining table.

2. The cat has _______ in that sunny spot all afternoon.

3. Yesterday, I _______ down for a nap while my daughter _______ her toys away.

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